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Sex and Judgement

the conversation

Photo-documentary titled: Sex and Judgement, shot 2007 at Palazio Gentleman's Club in Austin, Texas by Chriselda Pacheco

To most, being naked in public is their worst nightmare.

But to some, being naked in public is a way to hide.

-Chriselda Pacheco

ARE YOU READY TO ENTER THE MYSTERY SCHOOL THAT IS THE AMERICAN STRIP CLUB?

 

Where desire becomes a mirror, shame becomes a teacher, and judgment becomes an initiation.

If you’re ready to dive deeper into the deliciously taboo waters of sex and judgment—to explore the electric spaces where desire, shame, and power collide—then welcome to my 8-week Lilith Salon:

SEX AND JUDGEMENT: THE CONVERSATION

 

 

Begins: Saturday, April 5th at 9 AM Central

This isn’t your average intellectual chat. No, darling. This is an invitation into the underworld—my underworld—carved from 20 years of experience as a stripper, a priestess in six-inch heels, gliding through smoke-filled rooms where money, lust, and vulnerability twirl together in neon-lit shadows.

 

 

WHY SEX AND JUDGEMENT?

WHY NOW?

Her work stripped away layers of inherited guilt I didn’t even realize I was carrying. I breathe differently now—freer, fuller.
— Isabella D., 50, Nevada

 

We live in a world obsessed with judgment—who’s "good," who’s "bad," who’s "worthy." And nowhere does that judgment burn hotter than around sex. But what if sex—especially the kind that’s judged—is the doorway to liberation?

Being a sex worker—being a stripper—is like being initiated into a secret society. It's a Mystery School where you confront human nature stripped bare:

  • Desire laid out in dollar bills and gazes that linger too long.

  • Power exchanged in whispered fantasies and unspoken truths.

  • Shame... peeled back until something raw, something holy, remains.

  • This salon is a journey into that initiation. Into my story, yes—but more importantly, into yours. Because whether you’ve danced on a stage or not, we’ve all been taught to judge, to shame, to hide.

It’s time to stop hiding. It’s time to face the truths polite society begs you to ignore.

WHAT YOU'LL EXPERIENCE INSIDE THE SALON:

Over 8 weeks, we’ll explore:


🔥 Desire as a Path to Truth: What happens when you stop shaming your wants and start listening to them?

 

🔥 The Archetype of the Whore & Virgin: How the "good girl"/"bad girl" dichotomy keeps you disempowered—and how to reclaim both.


🔥 Sex, Money, and Power: Lessons from the stage that apply to boardrooms, bedrooms, and beyond.


🔥 Shame Alchemy: Turning what you hide into your greatest source of power.


🔥 Confessions from the Locker Room: Raw stories from behind the scenes at Palazio’s Gentleman’s Club. (Yes, I’m taking you there.)


🔥 Your Own Initiation: This isn’t just about my journey—it’s about yours. Where are you still judging yourself? Who might you become if you stopped?

WHO IS THIS FOR?

✅ Women ready to confront their internalized shame and judgment, (Catholic guilt.. etc).


✅ Creatives, healers, and witches seeking to understand the link between sex, power, and spiritual sovereignty.


✅ Anyone intrigued by the idea that sex work holds esoteric wisdom mainstream culture fears.


✅ You, if your curiosity is burning just reading this.

No prior experience with shadow work, stripping, or witchcraft required—just a willingness to be honest with yourself.

WHAT YOU GET:

✨ 8 Weekly Live Zoom Calls (75 minutes each) — immersive discussions, storytelling, and space for your reflections.
✨ Replays Available — can’t make it live? No worries; you’ll get access to recordings.

✨ Access to course modules with overflowing information on all things sex and judgement.
✨ Private Community Space — connect with fellow salon participants.
✨ Integration Practices — journal prompts, embodiment exercises, and rituals to deepen the work.

 

 

WHY I'M LEADING THIS CONVERSATION

Because for two decades, I lived between worlds—one foot in the sacred, one in the profane—and discovered they were never separate to begin with.


In 2007, while dancing at Palazio’s in Austin, I shot a photo documentary in the locker room, capturing the raw complexity of women who lived on the edge of society’s judgments—and I knew one day, I’d share the story.

This is that day.

I’m not here to romanticize or condemn sex work. 

I’m here to share the secrets about sex, judgement, power and shame I learned from it. And if you’re ready to hear it—and apply these lessons to your own life —this salon is for you.

INVESTMENT:

🚨 EARLY BIRD SPECIAL ALERT! 🚨

💥 Save $50 when you sign up early! 💥

✨ Early Bird Pricing:
🗓️ February 24 – March 10
💵 $400 paid in full

⏳ After March 10:
💵 $225/month for 2 months (Total: $450)

👉 Secure your spot and save with the early bird rate before it’s gone!

 

Limited spots to keep the container intimate. 

Secure yours now.

 

READY TO ENTER:

The Mystery School of the American strip club is open.
The conversation you’ve been avoiding? 

That’s where the naked gold is.


Let’s dig it up together. 🔥

 

👉 Join Sex and Judgment: The Conversation Now


👉 DM me "JUDGMENT" on Instagram 

@chriselda_pacheco_ to ask questions.


👉 Or email me at: chriselda@thelilithacademy.com.

See you inside the underworld.

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